旦那が朝帰り!しかも連絡なし!そんな夫に効果的な対処方法5つ

パートナーに関する悩み

旦那さんの朝帰りに悩まされている世の女性たち。

もしかしてあなたもそのうちのひとりでは?

 

理由もわからずにイライラと待つ時間は本当に苦痛ですよね。

今回はそんなあなたに旦那さんの朝帰りに効果的な対処方法をお伝えします。

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旦那の朝帰り!しかも連絡なしってあり?

連絡を入れてくれるならまだしも何の連絡もよこさずに朝帰りなんて許せません。

連絡がないばかりに「もしかして旦那の身になにかがあったのではないか?」と心配する妻の気持ちを考えたことがあるのでしょうか?

 

そうでなくてもせっかく作ったごはんは台無しになるし

子供たちに「パパは?」と聞かれもするし。

 

そのような心配がやがて怒りに変わり夫婦関係までも怪しくなります。

 

連絡をしない理由に「忙しくてできなかった」という人も多いのですがほんの1分もあればLINEぐらい打てるのではないでしょうか?

連絡をするという意識がそもそもないのでは?と疑いたくなります。

旦那が朝帰りする理由6選

旦那さんが朝帰りをする理由には「帰れない」と「帰らない」というふたつがあります。

まずは「帰らない」理由から見ていきましょう。

帰らない理由1 嫁が怖い

この台詞をいう男性、多いですよね。

仕事で疲れているのにあれこれと細かいことを注意される

いうことをきかないと激高する

自分の話ばかりする

という男性の声もあります。一方的な会話ばかりをしていませんか?

 

家庭で安らげなければ家庭以外のところに安らぎを求めてしまいます。

帰らない理由2 子供に絡まれるのが嫌

「子供が寝るまでずっと世話をさせられるから」という理由で家に帰りたがらない人もいます。

「自分の子供なのに?」と思うかもしれませんが

実際に育児を苦手と感じている男性はすくなくありません。

 

もちろん子供への愛情はあります。
ただどのように接していいのかわからないケースも多く見られます

 

また最近は男性も育児ができて当たり前という風潮もありプレッシャーを感じている人もいます。

 

このような場合は子供の興味や関心があることなどの情報を夫婦が共有して旦那さんが子供との時間を楽しく過ごせるようなサポートをしてあげましょう。

帰らない理由3 家に居場所がない

家に帰っても会話に入れず疎外感を感じたり無視されたりしているうちにだんだんと家が帰りたい場所ではなくなるということがあります。

 

家に居場所がないのですから外に居場所を作るのは当然です。

あなたはちゃんと「おかえり」といって旦那さんを迎えてあげていますか?

帰らない理由4 浮気

連絡もなしに朝帰りをされる妻がいちばん心配なのがこの浮気をしているケースです。
頻繁に連絡のない朝帰りを繰り返すようなら浮気が原因かもしれません。

 

続いては「帰れない」理由です。
心情的にはまだこちらのほうが理解できる気もしますがどうでしょうか?

帰れない理由1 残業

仕事での残業であれば仕方のない面もあります。
とはいえ電話の1本くらいかけられそうな気はしますけれど。

 

ただし職種によっては緊急事態に対応するような仕事もあり

連絡はできないかもしれませんね。

帰れない理由2 つきあい

つきあいでのお酒がおおいに盛り上がって朝帰りというケースです。

 

連絡ができないほど酔っぱらっている可能性もありますし

盛り上がっている時に家庭に連絡をするのは格好が悪いと考える男性もいます。

朝帰りをする旦那に効果的な対処方法5つ

朝帰りをする旦那に効果的な対処方法をしているうちに朝帰りが減る可能性もありますのでぜひ参考にしてください。

1 いつも以上に笑顔で接する

家に帰ってきたら笑顔で迎えてあげましょう。
笑顔で「おかえり」と迎えてくれる家になら帰りたくなりますよね。

2 甘える

朝帰りしたことを責めるのではなく

「いなくて寂しかった」「ひとりで心細かった」といってみましょう。

 

男性は頼られることに弱いといいますから「自分がいなければ」とう気持ちにさせてあげましょう。

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3 今後のルールを相談する

朝帰りや朝帰りの原因となることを禁止しても逆効果です。

束縛するよりもふたりで話し合ってルールを作りましょう。

 

どんなに遅くなっても連絡を入れることや飲み会の場所やメンバーを伝えることなど

実行できるルールを決めておきます。

4 やすらげる家の雰囲気を作る

帰ってきたら「おかえりなさい」や「おつかれさま」と声をかける

旦那さんが好きな献立を作る、共通の趣味を楽しむ、自由時間を設ける

などの工夫をして家を安らげる場所にしましょう。

安らげる場所であれば帰りたくなります。

5 朝帰りをしても詮索しない

朝帰りをした旦那さんを問い詰めたりスマホを調べたりするようなことはやめましょう。

詮索され過ぎることで罪悪感よりも妻への嫌悪感が勝ってしまいます。

また夫婦の信頼関係が損なわれてしまってはますます家に帰らなくなることも予想されます。

朝帰りをする旦那にしてはいけない対応3つ

ここからは旦那が朝帰りをした時にしてはいけない対応を3つお伝えします。
これらの対応をすると朝帰りがますます頻繁になるかもしれませんので気をつけましょう。

怒鳴る

感情にまかせて相手を怒鳴るようなことはやめましょう。
また女性は怒鳴っているうちに今回の朝帰りだけではなく昔のことまでいい出す傾向にあります。

これでは話がますますこじれるばかりです。

無視する

朝帰りの理由や謝罪を旦那さんがしようとしているのに無視をしてはいませんか?
無視をすることは非常に相手を傷つけます。

 

また無視を繰り返していると相手のほうでも話す気が起こらなくなり結果として夫婦の会話がなくなる可能性もあります。

家出をする

朝帰りの仕返しに家出をすることは賢明とはいえません。

家出先が実家であれば旦那さんと実家との間に亀裂が入ることも考えられます。

 

中には妻の家出で改心するという人もいるかもしれませんが

効果があるのはせいぜい最初の1~2回です。

「旦那が朝帰り!しかも連絡なし!そんな夫に効果的な対処方法5つ」まとめ

朝帰りの旦那さんに効果的な対処方法5つをお伝えしました。

 

連絡のない朝帰りに対して妻はただ怒っているのではなく心配しているからこそ

怒っているのだということに世の旦那さんたちが気づいてくれるといいのですが。

 

夫婦で協力して居心地のいい家および夫婦関係を築いていきたいですね。

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